No.
There is no way I could have ever been “destined” or “fated” to end up as messed up as I am.
I am a person who is broken, and it would be cruel to have that as a sure eventuality for anyone.
Saying that everything is “fated” or “destined” is incredibly offensive as an ideology. I’ve had to deal with molestation as a child from my stepfather and sexual assault from my father as an adult.
I still remember my father grinding against my backside with an erection.
Fated?
Please.
…If that’s the case, I’ve got a bridge in Brooklyn I wanna sell you.
~J. Lyst
Hey, Miss J! 
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