This question is confusing.
When I was recovering from major surgery back in 2019, I had numerous friends who came to take me to appointments, would give me money to pay bills and brought me food. I still have those same friends and we try to help each other.
As for a location… I went on a trip to New York with some friends… and one paid in cash for my room. My friend also paid for the gas. I was startled to have anyone who cared enough for me to do that.
My family has never reached out like that before.
Ever.
Even when my mother died, only four family members showed up for her memorial service. My dad asked who everyone else was… and I explained that they were all friends of mine… and one of them was a person I worked with. She brought her daughter who offered condolences… and we’d never met before.
Of the family that did show… only two out of six of her “loving” cousins showed up, along with my dad and cousin. My aunt claimed she’d been sick for three days… which was amazing because she hadn’t been sick the day before. She told me she felt fine.
But anyway… Yeah. My times of feeling love involve my friends.
The locations are many.
One told me recently that she wants to set up and time for myself and another friend to have dinner with her and her son.
Course, she wants me to make banana pudding to share.
~_~
~J. Lyst
I’d rather cook it ahead and bring it over after having it frozen.
Buuut… if I make it at her place, she’ll be able to see why it takes me 10,000 years to prepare things.
This time, I plan on making it from scratch from the cookies up.
… and I might have the ingredients I need to make some this weekend.
I also want pizza this weekend.
And yes, I make the pizza dough.
Hey, Miss J! 
Your Thoughts?